Everyone has the ability to dictate the outcome of their life. If people truly want to make a change they will - otherwise they'll continue to tell themselves a comforting little story about why they can't change. Every excuse is used - and excuses get you fkn no where. There's always someone who's situation is worse than yours who is currently doing what you've convinced yourself that you're incapable of doing. It all starts with you. How you approach your goals. Muhammad Ali the GOAT said he was "the Greatest" long before he ever believed it. Believe it and you'll receive it.